Step 2: Coordinate (Don’t Match) with the Mother of the Bride
Modern etiquette suggests:
The mother of the bride typically chooses first.
The mother of the groom then coordinates in tone and level of formality.
They don’t have to match—but should complement.
For example:
If the mother of the bride wears a navy gown, your mom could wear silver, plum, or champagne.
If the wedding palette is dusty blue and sage, she can stay within that color family.
Communication prevents awkward fashion clashes.
Step 3: Choose a Flattering Silhouette
Every body is beautiful—but the right cut makes all the difference.
A-Line Dresses
Flattering on almost everyone. Defines the waist and flows over hips.
Empire Waist
Great for comfort and soft elegance.
Sheath Dresses
More fitted and modern—ideal if your mom loves sleek styles.
Fit and Flare
Adds structure without being too tight.