To resolve this minor issue without becoming spiteful and full of resentment, you need to be more careful with who you trust.
Always keep in mind those who are looking out for your best interest and those who are looking out for their own.
5. You love fast and fall hard.
Now, for the kicker: Being too nice and being in love with the wrong person might as well be a recipe for disaster.
When you start caring about someone, you do everything in your power to make that person smile. Why? Because when the person you care for is happy, you’re happy. You’re just wired that way.
If I can pin you correctly, you probably have a heart of gold and willingly change your priorities to fit your significant other’s schedule — not because you need to, but because you want to.
You fall in love easily, and you tend to look at the good qualities of your love interest and ignore the bad. Of course, this fairytale comes crashing down pretty quickly when you stop receiving equal effort in the relationship.
Maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend got comfortable with your generosity, or maybe he or she hasn’t fallen as hard as you have.
To a kind soul like yourself, this could be devastating.
Yet, there is a simple solution that will prevent a heartbreak without being completely jaded: knowing your self-worth. By understanding the kindness you undoubtedly embody, you will soon understand you mustn’t settle for anything less than what you deserve.
Wait for the “nice” guy or girl. Stop searching for jerks, and seek someone who will appreciate your selfless efforts.
Once you find that special person who worships your sweet disposition, your overly-nice personality will never be an issue again.
